No one knows where to find a kindred spirit. Chance meetings at the mall or grocery store are only available on each persons best days. In my profession I see many peoples lives through tax preparation. I see love for spouses and I see the ones that just hang on. I am jealous of those that have found that long term person. This site and all dating sites that encourage people to find that are a God send. As many bad experiences that people put on the other, the real goal is to find one out of this haystack. I hope that I have found that person here. I have no clue how I would have found her any other way. Thanks!