Ive tried many different site to connect to friends, date or have something casual. To begin out of dozens of sites, if you are a free member, this site is sub-garbage. You are rarely seen by other members and if any happen to message you, you cant even read the message. Dont worry, there is more bullcrap than that. They are nazi's when it comes to your profile. Everything from your about me to your username. And they feel just fine with editing out any parts they dont like (saying negative things about the site, kik, snapchat, anything not pc) another thing is they will spam your email 10 times a day. When you unsubscribe it lowers to about 3 times a day even though it should be zero. I have read many reviews on different sites talking about how not only does premium suck balls, but also, just like the emails, when you cancel, they dont seem to care. They charge you anyways. Over 40 reviews on a less mainstream site gave it 1 star and said similar things. Knowing this site being more mainstream, most or all of the positive reviews are likely employees of zoosk being paid to reel you into a scam. I recommend meetme for friends, badoo or okcupid for hookups, and pof or tinder for dates. All 5 of those are free and i think most or all are on android and iphone app store.