It's crap that you have to "subscribe" to be able to see a message sent to you, the same for wanting to reply.
I was THIS close to subscribing for a one month thing. I had "gotten" a few messages from some matches that seemed promising and I was curious about what they had said in the messages. I had put in my credit card info and hit subscribe and THEN... " + one time subscription fee." That costs $25! So aside from the 20 I was willing to pay just to try out the full application I would have to pay $45 total. That is just bull.
This app/website is definitely a ripoff. It makes me rethink if those were actual messages or just spam created by them. Deleting account.