Originally joined cougar life for hook-ups but ended up meeting a couple of really nice older ladies and getting regular dates going. Definitely a good site. I also use Justcougars.com and had the same thing, actually recently met a woman on that site I REALLY like, shes ten years older than me and not exactly Courtney Cox but still, shes a great laugh and very well preserved (amazing body for her age) and so if things keep going there ill be leaving the cougar daring scene for good! Funny as when I started on these sites it was just about getting sex for me, but when you actually start meeting the women after a while, you realise a lot of them really are relationship material.