POF has many more men then woman. 7:1 I've read. From my dates I've heard many of the men are just bad. (Like asking the women about their sex life at times on the first email). For the women this is a dating site. Meet them first then ask them all the marriage questions you have. POF if someone doesn't have a face pic they are married, have a girlfriend/boyfriend or are in jail. Every profile should have a face picture.