If you buy Narp its because you are sick of not been able to get over an abusive relationship/s sometimes many years later. This was my case so I gave it a go. It worked and I'm still using the methods and guidelines and also avoiding toxic people. It is a way forward to the future and not the past. You are given the tools to recover then the rest is up to you, there is ongoing support in the program also. It's not always easy but its better than been haunted by your X and blaming the world for your problems. You are the only one responsible for your life no mater how unjust it can be. It can be an inconvenient truth. Its a great wake up call :)