Nobody's promising you a wedding. Why do you guys think it works like that? There isn't a magical website invented yet where you can put money in and get the girl of your dreams out in a second. (Except if you're looking for the girl of your wet dreams, you can always buy her but that's not the place) I've been using this site for a while and it's a pretty good dating site. You get exactly what you're paying for, not less, not more. The service is pretty clean. No scam, no fake promises, no tricky or misleading information.