Can't believe all the negative reviews. We're sure that the lifestyle varies with your location. Been a lifetime member since 2004 in upstate NY and have had nothing but good luck. Don't blame the site for wanna bee swingers, there are fakes on any site. Been to SLS sponsored events, parties, cruises, trips to hedonism. As far as support,,,, never had any issues with the site... there is no way that any site can monitor couples / singles to verify that they are real... That would be a huge violation to your privacy. If you don't like the site, try another,,,, we have and they really suck!