I would like to say that I spent 2 weeks on this website and talk to many different guys and found them to be life's rejects. Most have no job, or wanted only sex! However ladies beware a lot of these guys are out to rob or get money out of u and working with females to set u up or make u feel comfortable! One guy on this website wanted to take me out and I met him at the mall. So I did and he had a woman with him, who he said was his sister and he ask me to walk out to his car. He claimed he forgot something, I decided to walk away and they walk out! I later found his profile on Facebook and that lady was his wife... when I reported this to the blackpeoplemeet, I got no response and his profile is still up and running!