WARNING Stay away! I am a woman that is going though a divorce. I don't go to bars and a workaholic so I don't get out much in the social light and thought I would try the site for free at first. You will get all kinds of views immediately. After I paid $85.00 for 3 months ($25 fee I didn't know about up front) I found out a day later from a guy who was irritated that I viewed him 14 times in one day in which I did not. After thinking about it, I discovered that every time you scroll all the singles, it sends a message to them that you viewed them even though you never looked at their profile. When you scroll through all the people that viewed you, it sends them a message as well that you viewed them. When it came down to it, I think a lot of people are correct that all the good looking people are bots. With all the good looking guys who viewed me, only guys who were not so great looking contacted me. Then you embarrass yourself when you think someone is really interested because they viewed you a lot to find out that it automatically generates the view every time they scroll to see who viewed them. There is no way to get a refund and no way to reverse the charge from your bank. I have only been a member for 1 day and I am already sick to my stomach that I just threw away $85. My mistake at first was doing research on the best dating sites which was moreless probably paid for by the company to put in those articles. AVOID AT ALL COST or throw away your money. Now I have to ride out 3 months of this fraudulent site.