It's a set up, Pay the big bucks and they want you to pay more for VIP oh and you have to buy credits to text. I've been a member there for over 3 months I get lots of messages flirts and friend request and I reply to them all and even send messages flirts and friend request and I haven't heard from a one of them. One month I sent and replied to over 200 messages. You would think that if someone sent you a message and you replied that you would get another back. NOT! The sight sucks Save your money and go the the bar and have a beer. You'd have better luck picking up a sexy cougar at Wal-mart than you would on that sight