Terrible experience full of scammers, and insulting forum regulars playing their silly little troll games. Extremely poor moderation of posts. There was a very limited amount of genuine people there looking for dating or a real relationship. That's what you get from a free dating site.
The paid upgrade gives you little more than what you get from the free membership. Don't waste you're money
Don't bother wasting your time and go to a paid professional dating/singles matching website.