My experience has been excellent. The site warns against sending money to people on the site. There are all kinds of people there. Some looking for money some looking for a visa and citizenship. And some are actually looking for a mate. I found, met and married my wife on the site, she is from China, I am from the U.S. Best thing that ever happened to me. Just use your head. If your 50 and she is 21. You need to get a grip. I'm 48, my wife is 55.