Listen, I wanted to get into a relationship, I really did. I'm just a busy, grown adult who doesn't have time or patience to go clubbing or any of that other stupid crap. I get on match.com, and get the paid membership, because I really want something to happen. What do I get in return? Almost 90% of people my age aren't paying members (Not to mention that half of them were last online "Beyond three weeks ago"), which means that they can't speak on instant messenger, or anything else. What is the point? There is none! You can't talk to potential dates because nobody wants to shell out such a large sum of money just to meet people! I know what you must be thinking reading this, that I DO need to go out more, and do all the partying that my friends have done in the past. Perhaps I will. Match.com is a scam, and it sucks. Don't ever use it. EVER! It is a horrible waste of time and money.