I have been a member for about a year... there is a huge turnover of ladies... not a Good Sign. And many that seem in it for JUST the Money. Which is OK. But then make it an escort site! I would ignore the winks which seem like a scam to get you to buy credits... Ive had two accepted dates cancelled because the girls stopped using the site. It might be worth the time and investment if you know you want a Sugar Daddy type relationship and are good at Controlling the terms. Never bid too much for a date, or pay just to have coffee! Best of Luck.