We spoke by phone a few times and she got to know me and I got to know her very well. She decided to leave the site to just be mine. What was interesting was that some guys wanted her to be his just from one phone call. She used her better instinct to realize only a serious good man will invest in his girl and not force her to do anything or go faster than she wants. Yes you can find love in this site if you are patient and don't rush.