Andy W.

Hi Guys.
I have written this review purely as a condensed, unbiased guide for those using ChnLove dating site and sites related to it. Whilst this is based upon my own extensive experience, you will see that it also echoes much of what has been said and validated by other users, both good and bad. So, to begin…

Firstly, accept that emotion and logic vary rarely work in harmony with each other. Once you have emotionally bought into the idea that you have potential found your hearts-desire on the site, your logic will be heading out of the window. Start with only logic and save your emotions until you meet the girl in the flesh. Not easy, but essential believe me.

Secondly; for those of you that have not yet spent any time in China, do not fall under any preconceived illusion that the country is full of single beautiful women, desperate to get married to anyone that will love them. Yes, there are some beautiful women, and some that have forfeited marriage for a career, or are now divorced. But, they are as astute as any beautiful woman anywhere in the World, and just as choosey with their match-making. That is not to say that single Chinese women are not pro-active; there are parks in the major cities with notice-boards full of single lady profiles and contact details, but you will not find many stunning beauties amongst them. Logic review: If you have not got the looks, charm or wealth to snare a beauty on your home turf, then accept that you have no advantage in China either. Beautiful women in China seek the same as beautiful women worldwide. Western men are only more desirable to Chinese beauties when they can fulfil film-star fantasies. If you think you've hit the jackpot, then chances are that your logic has already deserted you.

Thirdly; Ok, so let's imagine that your photo and your profile would put George Clooneys' to shame, and your Chinese stunner featured on the ChnLove site is as besotted with you as she sounds in her EMF messages etc. What lengths do you imagine she would go to in order to prove that she was not only genuine, but also wanted to get-her-man ASAP before some other beauty beats her to it?
How about a cell-phone "selfie" photo with a message on her hand saying " Hi Andy" or "I love you Andy" or whatever you request? I suggest that you ask her to do that as soon as she starts with the sweet talk, and see what happens. If she responds promptly with the photo attached to the next message, you are George Clooney and you have hit the jackpot! Now you can forego some of your logic and risk introducing some emotion. If she makes excuses, ignores the request, or promises it for a later date…. Then it's time for another review of logic: Ask yourself, would you do it for her? How long would it take you? Would the minor inconvenience of combing your hair and snapping a selfie be too much trouble for the chance of a match made in heaven?

If you do find yourself getting too emotionally involved with a beauty (or two) on the ChnLove site, take a break for at least a week or two (don't worry, if she's into you as much as she says, she won't desert you. Chinese women defend their territory pretty doggedly). Use the time to restore your logical bias with these two exercises:

(1) Become a member on one of the less expensive Chinese dating sites (usually just a few bucks a month with no additional messaging fees fees). Pick a lady that you fancy a little and send her a lovely message inviting her to get to know you. Observe the contrast in how these regular single Chinese ladies react and communicate in comparison to your ChnLove experience. I have found that they will usually contact me first with email address, QQ ID and Skype address, all in their intro message! The photos come flooding, satisfying any request. Don't get me wrong, it is a two-way street. They will want to scrutinize you too. I had one Chinese lady ask to watch me cooking while on Skype! Lol and I let her do so.

(2) Research ALL the other Asian dating sites, and I mean ALL of them. It's time for you to do your homework. You may not like what you find, but let me ask you; how many dating sites are you featured on, or have submitted your profile to? Well guess what, chances are you will find your ChnLove beauty elsewhere too. Now check the profile details and compare. Is the profile verified as authentic?( most are)
Is she the same height? The same weight and the same age? Is she from the same city? If you find that suddenly she is three inches shorter and four years older (don't laugh, I have experienced this) with two verified profiles on two separate dating sites, then I suspect your logical bias will be well and truly on its way back, if emotional anger hasn't taken over first. Lol
Now you have some serious questions to ask her. However, be prepared for some beautiful excuses intended to tap into your emotional sympathy, and appeal to your desperation for it all not to end. If you are lucky, the impersonator may do you a favour and run, but don't bank on it.
And lastly; If you've got the looks, the charm, the finances, the photo of her proving that she knows you personally, you've not found any anomalies elsewhere and she is eager to exchange qq ID and email addresses etc. then go for gold. I believe it can happen on ChnLove and other sites too, but you've got to cross these hurdles ASAP before your cash reserves run dry.

I hope that I have assisted at least someone with the humility for which I intended this to be delivered. It is not about being cynical, it is about being logical and a realist. ChnLove is a polished dating site featuring countless images of beautiful women with heart-warming messages. If you are emotionally broken and in need of an emergency ego boost, then use it accordingly as it will happily provide this service (for a justifiable cost). However, if you are sincerely looking to make a genuine connection, for your own sakes, let logic prevail.

Good luck and Keep in touch. *******@yesway.co.nz

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