Abby L.

My friend used EHarmony and one of her first matches is now her husband and perfect match. They actually called after their first date and told them they no longer needed the site. EHarmony gave them the remainder and also gave them a small amount of money as a gift for their wedding when they posted it on their website. So there is some credibility to it if you don't mind the fee.

I was on POF and OK Cupid at the same time. I met someone on a date from this site and I messaged a friend who called me and pretended to be stuck in a ditch needing immediate assistance. His picture was not him, he asked for sex up against his truck, and he parked behind me so I couldn't move my car. Our date was supposed to be at a bar and grill I knew, but when we got there it was closed for the season. I drove through the grass to get away.

There are probably decent people on here, but there seem to be more shifty scumbags. Use with caution!

I was on POF for about 6 months, met my fair share of nasties and chumps. Hilarious stories to tell. But a geeky guy showed up as a "top priority match" and after a few weeks of talking we exchanged numbers and finally met. I had 2 kids from my past marriage and had to be very careful. Mind you, I posted on my site that I had children and no one with a record needed to message. I was very clear that I was a nerd and very independent and kind of a control freak.

Fast forward: we will be getting married in June after being together for over 2 years, we have a little girl together, and he has stepped into the father role for my other daughter without being asked or expected. He is amazing and I would never have met him if it weren't for POF. I've also met some of the best friends I have every had through him. One of them is my MoH. If you take your time you could find the right one.