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LonelyMilf has a rating of 1.67 stars from 64 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about LonelyMilf most frequently mention total scam problems. LonelyMilf ranks 3rd among Hook Up sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Definitely one of the top 3 dating sites for older women”

Tyson D.
8/23/16

There are some bad and empty cougar sites but this thankfully isnt one of them. Its pretty great and could only be better if it was free I reckon (when is someone going to invent a tinder for cougars? That would be ace!). Id rank this in my top three milf/ cougar sites maybe just behind justcougars.com but still way better than the other sites out there. Well worth a try and if you live in or near a city like me (im in Milton Keynes) then im pretty sure after a couple of months youll be leaving your own review to recommend the site to cubs looking for decent ways to meet older women!

Top Critical Review

“Garbage”

Lee M.
11/24/23

I recently used this site all the women I spoke to were nice then I deleted account and tried again and it was like they had never met you even when describing what you had talked about bogus site just to take money of lonely people

Reviews (64)

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Thumbnail of user lee867
1 review
0 helpful votes
November 24th, 2023

I recently used this site all the women I spoke to were nice then I deleted account and tried again and it was like they had never met you even when describing what you had talked about bogus site just to take money of lonely people

Thumbnail of user kenw79
0 reviews
1 helpful vote
October 18th, 2016

LonelyMilf is what you expect when you sign up quick, easy, appears busy and works in all the ways you need it to as a horny 24 year old looking for new ways to meet women who are ages with my mom! It's clearly one of the bigger cougar dating sites out there. If you like it id also recommend justcougars.com it flies a bit lower on the radar than LonelyMilf but is actually every bit as good and if anything has more genuine older women on the site. Which is nice.

Thumbnail of user eddiek13
0 reviews
7 helpful votes
September 14th, 2016

Been on & off this site for several years and it's just a con. There may be a handful of genuine MILFs, But the vast majority are totally faked.
You get these messages from various women - but they are obviously all written by the same person - just too similar.
And when you start chatting, they are deliberately vague and string you along so you keep messaging... and PAYING for it.
You're probably not even chatting to a woman - it's probably some bearded fat hobo smoking a fag & drinking beer, pretending to be a 23 year-old nympho!
Sites like this should be banned from the internet - it's criminal fraud.

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Stephen B.
0 reviews
10 helpful votes
May 31st, 2016

Total scam full stop. The "girls" string you along just to get you to pay for more credit. I got unexpected messages from girls but they were always the same, they lived nearby, they like my profile (even if it was blank with no photo!).rip off

Thumbnail of user tysond6
0 reviews
6 helpful votes
August 23rd, 2016

There are some bad and empty cougar sites but this thankfully isnt one of them. Its pretty great and could only be better if it was free I reckon (when is someone going to invent a tinder for cougars? That would be ace!). Id rank this in my top three milf/ cougar sites maybe just behind justcougars.com but still way better than the other sites out there. Well worth a try and if you live in or near a city like me (im in Milton Keynes) then im pretty sure after a couple of months youll be leaving your own review to recommend the site to cubs looking for decent ways to meet older women!

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Thumbnail of user rustamr2
0 reviews
4 helpful votes
August 15th, 2016

In my opinion it is nothing special but knowing there are so many scam sites out there I'd say this site is above average. I'd rate this as one of the better sites together with BritishMatures.co.uk, Cougars69.com and CougarLife.com. Guys, stop complaining about Fake profiles! You will find fake profiles even on Facebook and Craigslist. It is on you to use your common sense to not fall for them!

Thumbnail of user johnh473
1 review
24 helpful votes
March 3rd, 2016

Allie. So married women, there are plenty of them on the 522 pages of profiles, aren't vile by cheating on their husbands eh? Obviously, the sexual acts that they are 'advertising' are OK in your view? Your comments reek of an Olympic sized swimming pool full of pots calling the lone kettle black. For your information Allie, I'm single and everything that was posted on my profile was strictly honest and above board. I don't like being lied to and I certainly don't like being ripped off. Some free advice for you Allie, be much, much more economical with your sanctimonious self righteousness.
Have a great day.

Thumbnail of user adrianb45
0 reviews
7 helpful votes
March 28th, 2016

I actually chatted with a few older women on LonelyMilf so it seems to be real and I don't think it's a scam! IMO they don't have as many women in their member base such as Cougars69.com or some other large "Age Gap" sites. But if you are from the UK it should work for you.

Thumbnail of user marting31
0 reviews
15 helpful votes
March 19th, 2015

I've spent around £400 stupidly on this site with no success at all. No one's willing to commit to anything and always back tracks after you try and move things along! DON'T BOTHER GUYS REALLY.

Thumbnail of user bobbiej7
0 reviews
7 helpful votes
February 11th, 2015

I was foolish enough to send some money to be able to get contacts. They took my money (and of course my card details) and gave nothing in return. I suggest that every one on this review list writes to the Office of Fair Trading and also the BBC's "Watchdog" programme detailing their complaints. Publicity on television is the only thing that will drive these people out of business.

Thumbnail of user jeremyj22
0 reviews
17 helpful votes
January 27th, 2016

I had the spare cash and the spare time so I have spent a year trying to get just one date with any one of the 47 girls that I have chatted to on Lonelymilf.

One conversation I managed to maintain for the whole duration of my stay on here exchanging more than 800 messages each. Several others benefited from over 100 messages each depending on how I felt that they were replying to my messages. Another 20 'ish' profiles received between 20 and 50 messages.

I contacted some of the girls but most of them contacted me and some could, by anyone's standard, be only described as plain, and I would reply with a "thanks but no thanks message" and add a polite compliment.

I am a well educated person and I refrained from smut and was never rude in my messages. The message size on this site is restricted to approx 600 characters or about 100 - 120 words and I used as much of each messages allowance as I could.

So all in all I sent out approximately 3,500 messages over the course of a year at around £1 per message and I did not manage to get a single date with any of them. Not even for a coffee.

There is a tab on the home page (desktop version) entitled "search adult contacts". Clicking on this brings up 522 pages (always 522 which is strange) of profiles covering the whole of the UK. Each page has 21 profiles on it with page one being the closest to your postcode and page 522 being the furthest away.

After a few weeks I noticed that none of the profiles were changing on the page as you would expect with some girls finding love and leaving and new profiles coming on board. So I took a digital photograph of each of the pages 1 through to 10 from my computer screen covering 210 profiles closest to me. Ten months later I compared the profiles that were currently being offered to those profiles that were being offered when I had taken the photographs. Not a single one of the 210 profiles had left the site and every profile was in the exact same spot on every page.

Most of the ladies I had been chatting to were included in that 210. The conclusion that I have come to is that every single profile on the site is a fake and the site employs students to reply on behalf of dozens of the profiles explaining why the replies that you get from your messages are rarely more than 30 words long.

I went further with my investigations in some instances by asking if my "lady" could upload a fresh photo for me and in every case they were unable to do so. Why? Because the person that I was conversing with did not match the profile pictures that they were supposed to be and therefore could not supply a fresh photo.

I tried to contact the admin of the site on several occasions but never received an acknowledgement or a reply

I brought to the notice of most of the "ladies" that I spoke to that the reviews for Lonelymilf were terrible and all of them denied having seen a review despite the fact that whenever one Googles "Lonelymilf" this Sitejabber site is displayed immediately below it.

I challenge any of the ladies that I supposedly spoke to and to whom I have given my personal details, to repudiate my claims and I will offer my sincere apologies. Somehow I don't think I'll be getting any phone calls.

Just to add I have also deleted none of my conversations and kept printed copies of them all and there are many individual instances within those conversations that should ring alarm bells for the average person as to the validity of the site.

I could elaborate further but I think there is enough here to steer you away from this site, and I hope I have been helpful.

Thumbnail of user peterk90
0 reviews
2 helpful votes
June 3rd, 2016

I like a lot about LonelyMilf but still prefer JustCougars.com or good old fashioned Tinder! Haha! I tried it and im glad I did, had some good chats and will probably use it some more, but in terms of actually getting together with a cougar/older woman its not really happened. A lot of reviews say give it time so I maybe will. But I do okay with the other options so well see. Not a wasted effort, good to try different sites.

Thumbnail of user gregr22
0 reviews
9 helpful votes
March 14th, 2015

I can confirm all other comments. These girls are fictitious and it is obviously a sdcam. In over 500 messages not one date. AVOID

Thumbnail of user dominicc21
0 reviews
14 helpful votes
May 11th, 2015

This website is operated by a ghost company called s and p leisure entertainment. This company is not listed. Effectively it's a made up name, and operates in the shadows.
It operates from a virtual office at 483 Green Lanes, London N13 which is no more than a postal address.
Don't even consider using this site

Thumbnail of user kendricks9
0 reviews
5 helpful votes
May 24th, 2016

I have had chat requests from many women but honestly, it did not lead anywhere. So far I have been using this site to chat only and never met anyone in person and did not even get a phone number. So it is a little early to place an impartial review. However, using Cougars69 and CL I got results immediately after joining. So I am a little confused! I guess I will be using this site a ittle longer and to get a better idea how it really works. For now it is "ok", not more and not less

Thumbnail of user mikes278
0 reviews
16 helpful votes
March 17th, 2015

If you run your cursor over the links on the messages you get, you will find that the area the women are from show on screen! They are very rarely from even the country they claim to be from! They are in fact attempting to get you to enter into a conversation with their own staff! All the answers you get are 1 or 2 sentences and they don't answer your questions. This has the effect of you spending more and more money to talk to, probably some guy in an office, whose sole mission is to get you hooked into an expensive wast of time and money! Anyone who has met someone from their area should come on here and prove me wrong! I'll bet there are no genuine participants on this site! SCAM SCAM SCAM!

Thumbnail of user ianb57
0 reviews
10 helpful votes
September 28th, 2014

After reading the above, I thought I'd pay a tenner to see what's it all about. One girl couldn't even get the spelling of her supposed home town right! I've change my location in my profile and managed to fine the very same people living near me again. It's either a miracle of a scam. I'll let you decide. I would even go as far as to say you are chatting to some bloke at his computer earning a pound a message!

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Thumbnail of user lees90
0 reviews
21 helpful votes
July 29th, 2015

I joined thinking it was genuine. Did not spend hundreds, but spent some. Thought I was messaging real people. After a while I said about meeting, they always said not yet, too busy at work(what 24 hrs a day)or never answered this question despite me asking repeatedly, and telling them they had not answered question. These girls, 3, all supposedly local so would not have to go out of way to meet. I want to get to know you better over next few weeks etc. When I messaged to say seen this website and told them of reviews got, do you believe everything you read in the sun paper, do you believe a website with bitter old men on it because they cannot get girls etc. Tried every trick in book to get me to stay. One girl said I spend a lot of money on this site. What just to message people? Yes right!. If owners of sitejabber reading this please put YOU MUST READ THESE REVIEWS BEFORE JOINING LONELYMILF! At the top. Might just stop some people being ripped off.So my review is Do not join unless you have money to waste on something you will never get back in return.

Thumbnail of user camerona12
0 reviews
3 helpful votes
July 4th, 2016

Ive been using LonelyMilf for a long time now and ive always found it to be one of the better dating sites available for guy who like older women (and cougars who like cubs lol). Ive met women on it so can confirm that this is not some kind of scam and I usually have a chat or two going at any given time, probably because ive been a member so long and put in a lot of effort to get to this point. Im always looking for new sites to help me out with my cougar lust and recently found that JustCougars.com is a really good alternative (or additional site to use). It reminds me of what LonelyMilf was like a few years ago theres a real buzz of activity, pretty cool. Anyway youll never find a 10/10 site but if you can find one that you rate 8 or 9 then its happy days, so ill stay loyal to this unless something serious happens (like a relationship lol).

Thumbnail of user granta7
0 reviews
12 helpful votes
September 19th, 2015

Don't use this site it is a complete scam.
Stay well clear and I hope you read this before spending good money on it...
U will never meet any one and they will say anything to get you to keep messaging as each message costs a small fortune.

Thumbnail of user johns647
0 reviews
12 helpful votes
February 2nd, 2014

+1 on the scam - save your money, and don't fall for the bull$#*!. One of the girls simply refused to message me off site saying that she wanted me to pay (like everybody else) well there you go. I also did a google search on the images and indeed they show up in a lot of similar sites. AVOID

Thumbnail of user natalieg22
0 reviews
10 helpful votes
April 4th, 2016

As a 46 year old woman I am the object of a lot of affection on the site, which sounds great but can actually be a pain sometimes! I have had to use the block function with a couple of guys, so im glad thats there or Id just stick with using the other site I like, justcougars.com. I find that some of the men dont really take no for an answer but I suppose its the same on all dating sites. In terms of dates ive only had the one on LonelyMilf and it went pretty well, he was 28 and very mature for his age. Ill maybe meet him again but would be good to meet some ore good prospects and less of the perverts! I mean seriously, at 46 I know what a penis looks like, so showing me yours in twelve different angles is not going to be enough to get you laid. Try a bit harder!

Thumbnail of user tajs11
0 reviews
7 helpful votes
April 27th, 2016

MEH!

Thumbnail of user ronalds79
1 review
1 helpful vote
May 20th, 2016

If you are suspicious about a profiles, then do the following:

- Right click on the photo
- Select 'Copy URL'
- Go to google images
- Select the camera icon in the search box
- Paste the URL into the search box, and press 'search'

On less good sites they will often be fake...

Thumbnail of user cindyn29
0 reviews
2 helpful votes
September 26th, 2016

As a female user, or cougar as my type are better known (my type being named after an animal just because we like younger members of the opposite sex, nobody seems to notice that men have done that since the dawn of time and they dont have an animal name! I blame Courtney Cox personally), I thought Id add my two cents here. Yes, its a great site especially for us ladies as we can jump on anytime we feel a little crazy and have our pick from plenty of young guys. The site is porn for women, with six packs and shaved chests everywhere, and I must confess that I love it. Im sure it could be better, but then nothing is perfect so I dont want to go into the negatives as online dating is full of negatives (trust me, ive tried most sites). The positives are clear and ive had some pretty wild conversations and some pretty crazy nights out with some of the guys on here. As a side note, I would also say that JustCougars.com is well worth checking out too before making a decision as its maybe even better than this one and is a newer site with some great features.

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