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AsianDating

Overview

AsianDating has a rating of 1.71 stars from 140 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about AsianDating most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card, and email address problems. AsianDating ranks 77th among Asian Dating sites.

  • Service
    22
  • Value
    21
  • Shipping
    9
  • Returns
    10
  • Quality
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Positive reviews (last 12 months): 8.3%
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What reviewers want you to know

Positive highlights

  • I paid to get gold membership for one month, and I really think I found the person right for me.
  • However, I invested 600.000 VND (roughly 30 USD) for a one month membership.

Critical highlights

  • I am an Asian-Filipina i really felt sorry for those westerners who were asked for money by some members of this site.
  • Note I am talking about AsianDate.com because there are other sites that sound the same or are run by the same company.
How would you rate AsianDating?
Top Positive Review

“It is an OK site, USE your brain”

rene j.
5/28/21

The site is not bad but needs a lot of work. Also yeah scammers plenty but easy to pick out, support reacts fast against reported accounts. The big negative,,, the one kicked can remake rather fast a new account. That due the lack of obliged verification. Lots of scammers are Chinese ( mainland, hk,.) living in france, they drag you out not necesairy into another site ( whatsapp / skype) where as they try you to make investments. If you have no money they ll tell you to $#*! off ( just do not waste your time on those) All those dragging you in to TA, TF, TC, TR and other truly sites... well you know enough send them to hell and report. Those inviting you to skype straight away is the nudist trap ( 3/4) the rest Ghana) If you wanna be sure she is real use whatsapp! And please report them even if it just to annoy them to remake other profiles

Top Critical Review

“After spending thousands upon thousands of dollars with the Asian dating,”

Doug V.
1/30/24

After years of dealing with them, they believe their system cannot have a glitch when I've tried renew my subscription with the Royal Bank on the line with me, telling me that it's being declined because Asian days system is changing my information, but they say there is no way that can happen Heck I had that with my TV provider when I lost Netflix but they at least had the decency to say yes we did have a glitch and we found it. I had a person was ready to come to and wanted me to call her, but that isn't gonna happen because Asian dating can't make mistakes or Can they they truly screwed me over with their arrogance. If you have a set as similar experience, you can contact Douglas Vosper, Victoria, BC on Facebook don't be screwed by them. I would love to hear others that I've had problems with the site. Thank you.

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Thumbnail of user dougv113
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
January 30th, 2024

After years of dealing with them, they believe their system cannot have a glitch when I've tried renew my subscription with the Royal Bank on the line with me, telling me that it's being declined because Asian days system is changing my information, but they say there is no way that can happen Heck I had that with my TV provider when I lost Netflix but they at least had the decency to say yes we did have a glitch and we found it. I had a person was ready to come to and wanted me to call her, but that isn't gonna happen because Asian dating can't make mistakes or Can they they truly screwed me over with their arrogance. If you have a set as similar experience, you can contact Douglas Vosper, Victoria, BC on Facebook don't be screwed by them. I would love to hear others that I've had problems with the site. Thank you.

Thumbnail of user samq500
1 review
0 helpful votes
January 21st, 2024

The site is ok only if you are ready to pay for spicy chats and you aren't looking for a real thing. But even in this case, it's way too expensive. I'd recommend EasyFling4You
To those who want something real. You get to talk to genuine (not paid) girls there. You will soon have face-to-face meetings. The site is very helpful, unlike AsianDating which turned out to be a total time-waster and money-vacuum.
AsianDating is full of money-hungry scammers. Girls bombard you with romantic and sexy messages but don't get your hopes up. The site pays them and they correspond with you, send you sexy pictures (usually these pictures don't believe to them). They will tell you any kind of lie, anything you want to hear for your money. But they will never meet you or even talk to you for free.

Thumbnail of user michaels12041
1 review
3 helpful votes
November 14th, 2023

This site is a SCAM! These "woman" talk a big game and never show, I drove to the airport to pick up this woman who I have been chatting with for 3 years. I thought we were in love. I spent 9 hours waiting for the love of my life to show and she did not. I have since learned that the money I pay on this site turn into tokens and the woman receive money from the tokens, I have lost 1000s of dollars to a woman who I thought loved me all it was was a scam.

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Thumbnail of user bennyk21
2 reviews
30 helpful votes
April 23rd, 2023

I quit it. I noticed that AsianDating women spent days and nights online spouting all this bs from their keyboards. How is it possible? In fact one profile with sexy photos is used by several people who work in shifts. What an obnoxious, but perhaps, very profitable "business practice"! I dropped it like a bad habit when I realized how it worked. Women are paid for chatting, so you can easily spend a fortune if you chat as much as they want you to chat.

Thumbnail of user db1171
1 review
0 helpful votes
December 28th, 2023

Sign up, send a couple messages then your profile gets locked down permanently, Security dept wants a photo of your Drivers licenses to unlock your profile, they did this twice to me, I opened a 2nd profile with different email, sent 2 messages and again permanently locked

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Thumbnail of user moh.beans
1 review
2 helpful votes
August 16th, 2023
Verified purchase

I am an older guy looking for a relationship. Nearly all of the "women" are between 33 and 38, Those are the scammers. They will ask you to move off the site immediately, try to get your Skype number then text that their microphone in their phone doesn't work. That's a very common tactic. "Buy me a new phone" "My father needs surgery" "My car was stolen"... Age mid-forties and older is much safer but there are few. The safe way to deal with this site is to assume all members are scammers. I got my money back by convincing them they would get a You Tube video.

Thumbnail of user barryr316
3 reviews
5 helpful votes
April 7th, 2023

Yes there are fake accounts and scammers at Asiandating.com. ALL DATING SITES HAVE THEM. I'm not sure who is submitting the reviews but this, like all of the Cupid sites, is completely legitimate and most of the girls are real. It is easy to meet a nice girl for a serious long-term relationship if that's what you're looking for. However I've been told that a lot of men are only there because they are looking for fun. Some are married (but pretend to be single) and want to meet an Asian girl for sex. There is no intention of anything long-term. But back to the fake accounts and scammers, they exist, and my only gripe with the site when I used it is that customer service doesn't remove fake or scam accounts without screenshots from the user. System administrators should be able to check chat logs but for some reason theirs can't do that. All that being said this site is easily one of the better dating sites out there and I really don't understand the poor reviews. Perhaps it comes from paid employees of the competition? Lol

Tip for consumers:
It's a good site for anyone looking to meet someone real for a long-term relationship.

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Thumbnail of user blackduck25
1 review
3 helpful votes
April 20th, 2023

AsianCupid.com is a complete disappointment – all fake accounts and lots of catfishing, I am particularly disgruntled to find that all the attractive women only seem to message me when I don't have a paid account – suspicious if you ask me! You'd be better off spending the cost of that hefty subscription fee elsewhere as this site is way past its expiration date.

Tip for consumers:
Just don't.

Thumbnail of user amalia.moonstone
1 review
2 helpful votes
October 5th, 2023

Reading all of these reviews fascinated me, and I felt I needed to contribute. In terms of scammers on the sight, I can't say I ever found any. I never found ANYONE because my account was terminated upon creation. I signed up to join, put in the info, clicked the terms of service and clicked Join. It spun for two seconds, gave a notice that my account had been suspended and another could not be created. When I reached out to support, they asked for a ton of identifying information to "compare to my profile" which I explained to them I couldn't make because I was never able to get in. After back and forth, I decided it wasn't worth it.

In short: shady as hell, would avoid.

Tip for consumers:
Avoid. At the very least, use this website with extreme caution.

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Thumbnail of user johnn2731
1 review
2 helpful votes
May 16th, 2023

The problem I had was I live in a small town in Texas and it's not listed on their list to choose from. When I went to pay for a membership I couldn't because the town I live in is not on their list and there isn't any way to enter it. The city I had to use is 35 miles from where I live and doesn't match my credit card address, therefore I can't pay, which sucks because I found a lady 200 miles from me and she had contacted me and I can't respond back. SUCKS BIG TIME.

Thumbnail of user virgilh45
2 reviews
8 helpful votes
June 27th, 2023

The people who run this website/app will use fake profiles to entice you to sign up. You will receive interest from a beautiful girl and once you become a paid member, she suddenly disappears or becomes inactive. BEWARE! I can't cancel my membership quick enough! Wished I had known about all the bad reviews this site had before signing up.

Thumbnail of user renej51
1 review
1 helpful vote
May 28th, 2021

The site is not bad but needs a lot of work. Also yeah scammers plenty but easy to pick out, support reacts fast against reported accounts. The big negative,,, the one kicked can remake rather fast a new account. That due the lack of obliged verification.
Lots of scammers are Chinese ( mainland, hk,.) living in france, they drag you out not necesairy into another site ( whatsapp / skype) where as they try you to make investments. If you have no money they ll tell you to $#*! off ( just do not waste your time on those)
All those dragging you in to TA, TF, TC, TR and other truly sites... well you know enough send them to hell and report.
Those inviting you to skype straight away is the nudist trap ( 3/4) the rest Ghana) If you wanna be sure she is real use whatsapp! And please report them even if it just to annoy them to remake other profiles

Tip for consumers:
be smart , just think logic , check their language skills ( example : filipino not understanding tagalog )
use whatssapp as preferred outside the site ( check the country codes)

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Thumbnail of user cupidm
Cupid M. – AsianDating Rep

Hello Rene,
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this amazing review. We do try to give you the best value for what you pay by giving you the best experience that's effective and safe. Good luck in your search for love.

Thumbnail of user jamesb6685
0 reviews
0 helpful votes
June 26th, 2022

It's a wonderful site for meeting good people and hopefully a future spouse. I'm interested in several women who have messaged me about this.

Thumbnail of user bsteffy.cu
1 review
0 helpful votes
September 24th, 2023

Was a paid member with no issues. I am part of an ethically non manogamous (ENM) couple and was lioking for a.poly partner. I was completely honest in my profile and messages. I had iver 15 interested women and lost those opportunities. Some religious zelot to offense and reported me. I was kicked.off the dite and they kept my money because I was not looking for marriage in yhe.traditional sense. It is called Asian DATING, not AsianMARRIAGE. Scammers abound on this site but honesty is removed. There was also a married seletion for the current status, which I checked.

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Thumbnail of user stephene742
1 review
1 helpful vote
September 21st, 2022

Total scam. Don't waste your time or money. I really wanted to meet someone Just don't use it... SPE

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Thumbnail of user masham9
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
January 22nd, 2023

This site is part or affilate of others sites such as ASIAN FEELS, ASIAN MELODIES, UKRANE CHARMS, all of them without exception are scammers including the girls i would just fly to the country and meet them in person dont waste your time guys,FAKE, FAKE these girls are always sending you letters while in chat and want you to open videos lol. DONT WASTE YOURTIME I WAS ON ASIAN FEELS FOR 4 YEARS AND NOTHING I started with this site too but they were the same

Tip for consumers:
If you are chatting with a girl and all of a sudden she ask you to open her letter or video or mention that she sent you a letter and how important it is for you to open it block her and get off the site

Thumbnail of user earniem2
1 review
0 helpful votes
November 1st, 2022
Verified purchase

1 out of 100 people and messages might be legit if that the rest all wish to go to other apps then direct to another site or ask for money if you want to find a real date this site and ones like it are a waste of time and money, your investment is like money thrown into a fireplace

Tip for consumers:
The site has few to no real members, the majority are fake accounts and scammer accounts you will be spammed with messages the moment you make an account even with zero details or pictures,
there are some real people but its like 1 in a thousand and not worth the 1 week 20 dollar membership by any means

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Thumbnail of user barte39
1 review
1 helpful vote
July 13th, 2022
Verified purchase

Be aware of becoming member of this site! I'm sure there are genuine honest women over there looking for a man but this site is a real paradise for scammers. I also suspect that this organization is turning a blind eye to this or cooperating in adding fake members to boost their memberships. Once you became member for a certain period on this site you can blindly distinct the fake from the real accounts but apparently there is not on single employee at Asian dating who also notices this as well ( wink wink). What i also hate about this company is the fact that you can get zero recourse when someone makes a fake complaint against you. Your side of the story will not be heard and your account will be blocked the first time. But if it happens a few times you're permantly without getting given any chance to defend yourself. So bye bye money!

Tip for consumers:
They don't refund you !!! even when your subscription was for one year and they block your account you won't get your money back. SCAMMERS that's what they are.
If you have any complaints about other members or their site they just will send you automatic generated messages again and again. they are even too lazy to answer properly !

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Thumbnail of user rodneya184
1 review
3 helpful votes
October 30th, 2022
Verified purchase

Much of what others have said is very true. Fake profiles and scammers looking for a quick buck are abundant! Stay away at all costs. I wish I'd done my due diligence before getting involved with this website.

Just to protect others I will share a quick story. I met a woman from Philippines and she seemed legitimate. We had many video chats and I began to trust her. She went as far as to send me a copy of her birth certificate even. To shorten the story I ended sending over $5,000 for Visa, medical exams, and travel expenses to get her to the USA. She never showed and like a fool I never bothered to check the booking conformation from the travel company before I sent her the final $2,700. It was only after I realized I had been hornswaggled that I called the travel agency to find out the booking had been cancelled shortly after it was made.

This is not all the websites fault, but I would be extremely cautious with anyone I met on this site if you so choose to use it. Whatever you do, DO NOT send money to anyone no matter how comfortable they make you feel.

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Thumbnail of user matthews1900
1 review
7 helpful votes
January 27th, 2022

Of all the Cupid Dating websites, This one is the spamiest! Yesturday I received over 45 "emails", yet only one actually had a membership. How are they emailing people? I had a couple of conversations with some ladies, but then they wanted to continue chatting on other "paid" dating websites! As your searching the site, you'll get flooded by notifications, making it almost impossible to navigate, or carry on a conversation in chat. Yes, they have a MANY fake profiles & women looking for "Simps" or "Sugar Daddys". It's no wonder no one wants to communicate thru the website. I'm not totally convinced everyone on there is fake or a scammer, but it's really hard to sort them out. I even came across a profile that stated she isn't emailing anyone, that the site sends out random "Hi" messages to men. And yes, I did receive one. Very disappointed in the site.

Tip for consumers:
Don't chance it

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Thumbnail of user mikem3285
1 review
9 helpful votes
February 3rd, 2022

Shame on the people making money off this website. There is a special place in hell for them. I've been on a good amount of these types of sites and it almost seems as if they WANT scammers/solicitors/catfishers on here. On other sites a member must pay fees to send a message. Not this one. Within 20 min of starting my account I had 15 messages of super model looking girls hoping to "start a relationship" with me. I am a 38 yr old, freshly divorced, attractive American that spent a lot of time in the Philippines. I know the deal. I've been on Filipino Cupid before and that looks like a world class dating site compared to this. 99.9 out of 100 messages you get will be from a dude scammer. Guarantee. It's a joke. Save your money. Do not waste your time.

Tip for consumers:
Sad

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Thumbnail of user anatolym2
1 review
1 helpful vote
January 4th, 2023

IF I could give a zero rating, I would give it. Scam, scam, scam. Paradise of scams. Avoid upgrading your profile on seedy messengers. This trick will expose your credit card number outside of Western controls.

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Thumbnail of user bauyrzhanm
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
March 17th, 2023
Verified purchase

When I first signed up on this website I was stumbled on scammers. I bought the premium platinum membership for 1 year. Most of women who messaged me in the first 2 weeks seemed to be from rich, developed countries... however after some talk, they start to ask from me my email... and this gave me the red signal. At first I was very suspicious, because we could have switched to Whatsapp or other social network instead. But later I decided to give those girls a chance, which resulted them spamming my inbox. Just expect that in the first 2 weeks you will be bombed with spams. But later I start to meet actually real women... but most of them were from poor families, with poor background or someone who were already married before and already raise children. Most women who messaged me in there were from Philippines. I decided to switch off my profile, because I actually was seeking for a muslim girl, but in Philippines there are a lot of Christians, and I found a lot of women who were atheists or agnostics, which is not a match for me. All of the relative websites work almost in the same manner, I bought the premium membership in another website called muslima.com, and like on this website once your premium is over, you can't see messages of others if you are both standard members and your attempt to leave your contacts in the bio might result in the deactivation of your account.

Thumbnail of user randym534
1 review
6 helpful votes
June 14th, 2021

As soon as they give you a sad story or ask for money, run. If you send money you are a fool. I have been on asiandating for almost a year, and 90% of the girls are scammers. Just finished a month communicating with a Filipino girl, who had many sad stories. She came up on my fb people you may know. Of course her profile picture is her and her Filipino husband (posted just a few days earlier).

These girls have all the time in the world to try to separate you from your money. If they ask for money, tell them only after you have met them in person. This will send many of them running, but not all.

Avoid profiles with one picture, or no answers. Ask the girl for her complete name so you can do a search, and learn how to do a reverse image search.

All Filipinos who are working in China are FAKE. The problem is they are real girls who have been recruited by scammers in Nigeria, so they can send you real current pictures. They will guide you to a travel site that they swear can get them a visa to the USA. The travel site looks real, but if you do a WhoIs search, the domain for the travel site that is suppose to be in China, is really being hosted from Nigeria.

If you send any money to any of these girls, you are a fool. I have met a very few real girls, but the percentage is very very small. I agree, that asiandating is helped by all the scammers, by making their girl base look very attractive. Don't ever send money.

Thumbnail of user cupidm
Cupid M. – AsianDating Rep

Dear Randy,
We apologize for your unwelcoming experience. We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Unfortunately, it is extremely hard for us to verify the real intentions of the members as most dating sites do not require any form of formal identification to register and most members use their private email address to communicate with members.
It is very sad that a small minority of dishonest people will make such a negative impression of our site, as the vast majority of the members registered with us are honest.
We do our best to remove these people from our site, deleting any profiles showing dubious photos or information, as soon as we see them, however, we also rely on our valued members who kindly report to us any suspect or fake profiles they find on our site.
In addition, Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk

Thumbnail of user vantev
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
June 18th, 2021

All it is is a bunch of fake pages. Ask you for whatsapp or skype. Over priced, cant delete or block messages! Yea. It was a L for me

EDIT: UPDATE! IT IS INDEED REAL PEOPLE ON HERE! There are obviously wayyy more scammers on here than real people but you cant blame the company for that and i do see that they trt their best at it!

TIP: IF someone view your page and and dont message you. She's real! Asian women are very shy to talk first! I am currently talking to 3 real confirmed people! When you talk to them, make them send you a special picture of them holding or doing a specific pose! You will 100% know its them then! This is a 5 star app! I love it! PLENTY of nice people on here!

Tip for consumers:
Very nice app

Thumbnail of user cupidm
Cupid M. – AsianDating Rep

Dear Vante,
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this amazing review. We do try to give you the best value for what you pay by giving you the best experience that's effective and safe. Good luck in your search for love.

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