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adam4adam has a rating of 1.31 stars from 50 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. adam4adam ranks 721st among Dating sites.

  • Service
    6
  • Value
    6
  • Shipping
    2
  • Returns
    2
  • Quality
    5
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Top Positive Review

“My experience”

Dave B.
7/9/16

Been a member for 3 weeks with no issues and no violation of policy. This morning I try to log in and it tells me "Wrong Username or Password!" which is impossible because my username and password are saved on my PC. So I try to recover my password using the Hotmail email address I used to create the account and it says "EMAIL address is not registered.". This is ridiculous because that same Hotmail inbox is full of messages from Adam4Adam. How could it be "not registered"? I am pretty sure the administrator is deleting profiles of a certain kind that do not fit his idea of site members. UPDATE: After posting here, Adam4Adam reached out and addressed the issue. I revised my feedback score. Thanks.

Top Critical Review

“Getting tired of my profile content and all others being shown with ******* for certain words.”

Michael C.
11/29/23

It used to be that if you used the app on an iPhone that you would only see pics deemed safe for work and any so-called "dirty" words would be blocked. This is due to Apple rules about apps not being pornographic sites so I didn't think that much about it. You could just use m.adam4adam.com in the browser instead and then everything was visible. Starting about a week ago now even that site is blocking valid content and it gets impossible to read the profile. It's a damn Sex site so why do you block these words and photos? What else do can you call it? And what the hell is a masseur on here but a paid prostitute! Why would you brag about your body and $#*! size if you're just going to massage me? Because you're not. You are a PAID PROSTITUTE! Then there are all the 30 yr olds (so they say) messaging me with no pics and no profile info. SCAMMERS all over the place. I changed my subscription to not renew and I will be done with it after it expires in a month. Too bad. It was decent until all these new rules.

Reviews (50)

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Thumbnail of user mdc0012
1 review
1 helpful vote
November 29th, 2023

It used to be that if you used the app on an iPhone that you would only see pics deemed safe for work and any so-called "dirty" words would be blocked. This is due to Apple rules about apps not being pornographic sites so I didn't think that much about it. You could just use m.adam4adam.com in the browser instead and then everything was visible. Starting about a week ago now even that site is blocking valid content and it gets impossible to read the profile. It's a damn Sex site so why do you block these words and photos? What else do can you call it? And what the hell is a masseur on here but a paid prostitute! Why would you brag about your body and $#*! size if you're just going to massage me? Because you're not. You are a PAID PROSTITUTE! Then there are all the 30 yr olds (so they say) messaging me with no pics and no profile info. SCAMMERS all over the place. I changed my subscription to not renew and I will be done with it after it expires in a month. Too bad. It was decent until all these new rules.

Thumbnail of user vakiliabeeeed
1 review
1 helpful vote
August 9th, 2023

Someone messaged me on Adam with "Alaye" I Googled and learned it's code word for Nigerian scammers. And I thought to pretend to be a scammer to get the scammer to say something to report his sorry! Boom... my account got suspended! ADAM STAFF, first have some decency to reply to a paid user of the past 10 to 12 years. It's just horrible customer service. Second, one strike, you are out!? What a bull policy. And which one of you gets to make that determination? I bet someone who was mocked & ridiculed a lot as a teen! THIRD, given much better choices like [s n i f f i e s] I am in fact happy I got suspended. You saved me $$$. Hope to see you guys reverse your draconian rules. Or don't and get wiped out from competition!

Tip for consumers:
I was pushed to go with the competition and very happy. You should too.

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Thumbnail of user phongv
0 reviews
16 helpful votes
March 6th, 2015

Visit a4a mobile, page says ip address block. I'm like, " wtf, nooooooo" from morning to afternoon and evening still block. I'm in Houston TX. First I thought I harass 2men. For months. But even then I would get a warning. Im a free user since iPod 4th Gen, came out!

Thumbnail of user paula563
3 reviews
13 helpful votes
September 1st, 2023

Why would anyone pay to subscribe when the site has so many on-going glitches (that have been occurring for decades). Customer Support are robots who do not even read emails, they just cut and past generic responses. Lastly, half the profiles on the site are scammers. Would urge anyone contemplating buying membership to think twice!

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Thumbnail of user leek753
1 review
0 helpful votes
March 23rd, 2024

Here is what's wrong... 20 times a day a get hit on 18 of them live in Cheney KS. I live in Boston MA 1637 miles from Cheney KS and according to the 2021 census there are approximately 2170 people who live there. For the amount of A4A email responses, the population would have to be at least *******, larger then the population of the city of Atlanta. A4A is not blocking folks from West Africa who have created at least 95% of these profiles

Thumbnail of user twarb07
1 review
1 helpful vote
July 14th, 2023

Scammers galore just a waste of time app yea I am overweight but I am not dead yet and guys rather hit up chicks with $#*!s avoid Kansas Cheney Sedrick area they are all scammers guys asking me for gas money especially when they are only 30 miles away that's weird too many party and play on this app which usually means meth tired of being hit up with guys with no pictures come on it's 2023 have a face picture no I will not go on google chat or WhatsApp or I won't give out my cell number just a waste of time app flakes and fakes sadly adam4 adam once was a very good app about 4 years ago with good guys I don't trust the guys on this app as a lot of them are trying to get personal information out of you just a real disappointment and the administration doesn't do a damn thing to fix the problem!

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Thumbnail of user aarons66
0 reviews
4 helpful votes
September 7th, 2015

My primary grip about Adam4Adam is you can't really "block" anyone. Technically, if you block someone you are either having an issue with or just don't want to see, you're blocking yourself from them. You can't see their pic or email them; HOWEVER, they can still see you and check out your profile (with exception to private pics)... they just can't contact you. WTF? My advise is to take a look at Facebook's 'block' feature. Get with common logic.

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Thumbnail of user ericb2436
1 review
1 helpful vote
February 21st, 2023

This site is nothing more then a site for criminals to wait for thier prey to be brought so they can run their scams, prostitution and then we can get started on Nicaragua, Africa and other 3rd world countries, the only entertainment to be had on this site is playing with the scamers, while sitting on the PC to find out who they are and who's pictures are the they are using, no use in reporting anything they run multiple accounts, and will have three more before the one is deleted, peole that don't want to provide a profile picture should by Sent kicking rocks, profiles should have to be verified with 7 days or they are deleted, in short do some investigation on who is using your platform..

Thumbnail of user anonymousa1820
1 review
0 helpful votes
September 9th, 2023

The site is involved with Prostitution. The Hustle on the site tries to push all the men in their 50s, 60s and 70s on every person on the site. Only join if you are a drug dealer to hit them back in the wallet!

Tip for consumers:
The church may be involved in this site.

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Thumbnail of user ca10175
0 reviews
16 helpful votes
January 13th, 2015

Not exactly sure why it banned not only the IP address on my computer but also the one on my phone. I have a 2nd laptop that i will check. I never held this site to any high regard but it was one of the few that made meeting up with people fairly easy. I can find what this site offered somewhere else... but... it sucks because of the folks i only really talked to on that site i will never hear from again probably. So... thanks for defeating your own purpose...

Thumbnail of user amberj41
0 reviews
1 helpful vote
November 25th, 2016

Started transitioning a year ago been on adam for 6 years started using as man tried creating a new profile with my main picture fully clothed. Been denied three times now no message from support. My pic was tasteful and i see people in constant violation of there the g rated main picture policy and nothing happens there $#*! and $#*! pics stay up forever zero repercussions if you post a picture fully clothed of progress as a trans woman your picture is not approved and adam4adam will not confirm or deny wether or not there anti transgender

Thumbnail of user parkerj7
0 reviews
0 helpful votes
January 13th, 2015

Had this for well over 7 years. For the first time I have just been banned IP address blocked. I see I'm not the only one maybe I'm hoping it's a glitch in there new update system

Thumbnail of user drewa10
0 reviews
0 helpful votes
January 26th, 2016

And they don't tell me why. I am devastated. I check adam4adam all day long and I am dependent on it. I want to know who's out there at all times. I love getting messages from guys admiring my pic. They've taken it away from me. I don't know why. It's the only pleasure I get browsing this site every day. Please reinstate my account.

Thumbnail of user davidm297
0 reviews
1 helpful vote
August 5th, 2015

They lose profiles - after the text is written, approved a day or so later, you log back in and most of it gone, lost not edited. I just logged on (I live in LA) and choose the a very wide area in LA/Hollywood. Not one person is online according to them.

I am a paid member have complained about the missing profile issue several times, because it happened several times and they never responded! WTF guys.

Thumbnail of user dl57
D L.

Hi David, please email support@adam4adam.com and tell us what is your original text so they can review and post it in your profile. Thank you.

A4A Support

Thumbnail of user chrisp188
22 reviews
60 helpful votes
March 2nd, 2017

The website is in need of an update.

Suggestions:
- Make it so the page doesn't refresh every time you change the location in the Search page
- Add sexuality (gay, bisexual, straight but curious, trans, etc.) as a profile feature and Search criteria
- Add a check off box for "Members with FACE pictures only"
- Fix picture uploader so when a picture is uploaded it isn't turned sideways
- Under My Account > General, make it so that when you change your home location it doesn't show you're X hundreds or thousands of miles away in your new city (e.g. - I could live in LA, and move to NYC, then when I change my home location to NYC, other guys in NYC see my profile, but then click on it to see it say 3000 miles away when I might only be 5 miles in real life).
- Remove obviously fake profiles
- Remove duplicate profiles
- Remove ancient profiles that have not logged on in a long time (maybe over a year)
- Change the Alert Sound for messages to something less jarring/harsh
- Add a search bar function to the Mailbox so you can find certain messages or messages from certain users easily
- Make the Member Search 3 characters instead of 4.
- Hire more programmers who specialize in UI/UX

Thumbnail of user erikd12
0 reviews
1 helpful vote
May 12th, 2016

Adam4Adam is the worst maintained gay social website I have ever attempted to use. Unlike other sites such as Manhunt and DaddyHunt, you can't really hide and block another member. The only block that there is prevents them from contacting you via the message system. When you block them, you can no longer access their account or see their profile photo. HOWEVER, they can still see yours, they can still search and find your account and they can still surf any non-private photo. When you view the member grid to view other members, you can still see their presence. The photo on their profile? Oh yeah! A big 'X'. What is this? The site is consistently interrupting access to your messages with the excuse they are currently upgrading to make things more spectacular. A couple hours later... same ol' same ol' crap. Personally, as an IT engineer I don't think they want you to truly block members presence because that reduces the number of members in your view and thus affects their agreement and terms with the advertisers on the site.

Tip for consumers:
Don't waste your membership money. You're only rewarding them for a site that hasn't changed in almost 10 years.

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Thumbnail of user johnh287
1 review
4 helpful votes
January 13th, 2015

Just tried to sign in and found my IP had been blocked. Great customer service for a long-time user, yessir! I don't know what criteria they used to determine I should be blocked, but whatever it was, it's invalid, and they should contact the user BEFORE they block, since you have NO recourse at that point to appeal their decision. Guilty until proven innocent seems to be their mantra. If I could give a negative star rating, I would.

UPDATE: they may have been suffering a DDOS attack, since I can now log in. I'll give THEM the benefit of the doubt and upgrade to two stars. They STILL need to at least admit to the loss of service, for whatever reason.

Thumbnail of user pattis24
1 review
1 helpful vote
November 14th, 2016

The guys need to stop with can you host crap, stop cheating on your partners

Thumbnail of user jasonl45
0 reviews
6 helpful votes
February 18th, 2014

Well, I have been an active member of this site for over 10 years. This week it appears my account has been hijacked multiples times. From a fat old white guy, my user name and password now showed a slim 24 yr old black boy living across the country. My email had been changed, pics deleted and entire profile re written. Emails to their so called support department have yielded nothing, and like other users have found they do not provide assistance in person, or even vial live chat. I'm disgusted and will be deleting my account..

Thumbnail of user rb50
0 reviews
16 helpful votes
March 6th, 2015

Created an account and was on the site for about 4-5 minutes suddenly had to log in again only to get the message "account suspended" What is the deal with this site?
Not a huge deal, had already heard it was lame for hook ups, fakes and flakes and a cesspool for "Pozed up" masquerading as "Neg"

Thumbnail of user daveb139
1 review
4 helpful votes
July 9th, 2016

Been a member for 3 weeks with no issues and no violation of policy. This morning I try to log in and it tells me "Wrong Username or Password!" which is impossible because my username and password are saved on my PC.
So I try to recover my password using the Hotmail email address I used to create the account and it says "EMAIL address is not registered.". This is ridiculous because that same Hotmail inbox is full of messages from Adam4Adam. How could it be "not registered"?
I am pretty sure the administrator is deleting profiles of a certain kind that do not fit his idea of site members.

UPDATE: After posting here, Adam4Adam reached out and addressed the issue. I revised my feedback score. Thanks.

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Thumbnail of user dl57
D L.

Hi Dave, please tell us your username so we can check. Thank you.

Thumbnail of user guyn5
0 reviews
7 helpful votes
September 26th, 2015

I had used A4A for several years and had been a contributor. I deleted my account for sometime and yesterday I signed back up creating a brand new account cause my old one was gone and my account was suspended in the first 5 minutes with no reason or warning given. It was never even approved. I put in all required info.

Thumbnail of user dl57
D L.

Hi, please email support@adam4adam.com and let us know your username so we can check. Thank you.

Thumbnail of user ml77
0 reviews
5 helpful votes
January 13th, 2015

For approximately 2 1/2 years, I've been a contributor to Adam4Adam and have created some healthy connections with older, more established men in my community. An hour ago (1/13/2015) I was blocked and told that my IP address was suspended. Since there is no direct contact information on the Web for administration or customer support at Adam4Adam, I checked my banking ledger. The number for SegPay, which is the closest contact you'll get to Adam4Adam, is *******000. If you are a contributor to Adam4Adam, this will be your only recourse for disagreeing with the action taken against you. I am clueless about suspension but find it very inappropriate that just 5 days ago, they debited $10 from my account but have suddenly, without justification, suspended me and blocked my IP address. I'm at AuxMagasinsduPauvreDiable at Gmail. Thanks!

Thumbnail of user robertc196
0 reviews
3 helpful votes
November 25th, 2015

Lots of porn an no hookups very few views and they say donate to keep us rocking
Nothing rocking me'
Henry*******

Thumbnail of user kksk
0 reviews
0 helpful votes
November 12th, 2016

Frustrating... it takes hours and days to ge tprofile activated. Previously used to be quite fast

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